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Ms. Que Banh<p>I have had men literally tell me - to my face - that they want to experience what it's like with a disabled Asian woman. WTAF. I'm not Disneyland. Neither are ANY other disabled people.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Ableists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ableists</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/FuckingJerks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FuckingJerks</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>One thing I got a lot of, from ignorant public who have said outright rude &amp; blatant <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ableist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableist</span></a> shit like some of the below, for decades 👇</p><p>- You're too pretty to be disabled. *mega WTAF*<br>- You move like you're not disabled at all. *🖕*<br>- You're not like other disabled people. *We're not a monolith*<br>- How much of your body is paralyzed? *Only misogynistic men have asked this before getting to know me*<br>- I can help you out with everything! *When I'm capable of taking care of things &amp; will only ask for external help when truly needed.<br>- This is more of an ableist action more than words -&gt; when they try doing things to help me that I never asked for, doesn't really help me &amp; they get angry when I ask them to please ask me, before trying to help me because sometimes help from people who don't communicate well with me - ends up costing me more time/energy to deal with/resolve/diffuse.</p><p>I want &amp; need help sometimes. Please don't think you know how better you can help me - when you've not invested any genuine time to try to know me better, first.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>I actually want to do a secretly filmed <a href="https://beige.party/tags/SocialExperiment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialExperiment</span></a> offline to show folks how differently I'm treated when hiding my visible physical disabilities &amp; how I'm treated when public can see the metal cages/leg braces that I have to wear on daily basis. I know from my own life/personal experiences that I was treated VERY differently - depending on if people could see my leg braces or not.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/Ableist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ableist</span></a> bullies/rude jerks are why I don't wear dresses out in public much. I will wear what I want, when I have enough spoons to deal with public bullies. It always happens because I'm visibly disabled &amp; even more so, when I wear anything that shows my dual long leg braces. I didn't go to public beaches for 30 years because people would point out all my surgical scars &amp; question me about my atrophied legs &amp; other super disrespectful crap. I couldn't deal with that - constantly.</p><p>I tried going to public beaches to relax. Not to be targeted as abnormal &amp; be treated awfully. I only go to secluded spots now.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>I rarely wear dresses out in public. I wore one, today. Photos from Mom 💞</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AsianMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AsianMastodon</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>From our walk around Saxe Point, yesterday. We loved the giant <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ferns" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ferns</span></a> at the seaside <a href="https://beige.party/tags/park" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>park</span></a>.<br>Decades back, I used to rent a house on Wychbury St, just a few blocks from this municipal park. It's close to CFB Naden, in <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Esquimalt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Esquimalt</span></a>.<br>I'm wearing the sequin tank top &amp; the AnarchoSocialist hat that I made for myself, last week.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/VictoriaBC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VictoriaBC</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/YYJ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>YYJ</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/VancouverIsland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VancouverIsland</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/VanIsle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VanIsle</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/NatureWalk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NatureWalk</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/UrbanPark" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UrbanPark</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AccessiblePark" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AccessiblePark</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AsianMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AsianMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/NatureLovers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NatureLovers</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/LifeAt50" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LifeAt50</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/GenX" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenX</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/GetOutside" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GetOutside</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>Walking around Saxe Point Park, in <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Esquimalt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Esquimalt</span></a>.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/AsianMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AsianMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/PeopleWithDisabilities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PeopleWithDisabilities</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ferns" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ferns</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/NatureWalk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NatureWalk</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/VictoriaBC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VictoriaBC</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/VancouverIsland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VancouverIsland</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/PNW" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PNW</span></a></p>
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Since my last update, new donations were received, together totalling $62.78 🙏❤️
**I had to use $185.25 from funds raised to pay for my emergency dental gums surgery last week & $54.67 for more emergency dental on my gums. Total spent on 2 dental emergencies: $239.92 **

Current numbers for my fixed dentures fundraiser:
$1,758.68 CDN in donated funds received as of July 7th.
$2,330 − $1,758.68 = $604.10
$604.10 + $239.92 = 844.02
Total still needed: $844.02.

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

Happy #DisabilityPrideMonth to fellow #PeopleWithDisabilities. I'm proud that we're still here, using our voices to keep advocating for #DisabilityRights & #inclusion & #accessibility & making our presence known because we are also part of the communities we live & work in.
Disability rights have come a long way but there's still much more work to do to reach equality & equity goals too. I appreciate everyone who supports people with disabilities & folks who understand how much many of us had to overcome just to still be alive & able to post here today.

Many folks in our society look down upon people with disabilities & that's their personal deficit. Those folks don't want to accept the fact that everyone will suffer disabilities at some point in their lives. If they weren't so close-minded, they'd likely not support any type of eugenics on disabled people either. The fears of having disabilities causes many non-disabled folks to grip to ignorance rather than lean into learning more.

We, folks with disabilities, are some of the most highly adaptable people in society. We've had to adapt at every stage in our lives to survive. We know what it's like to be prejudged by people & we know a lot about discrimination. We've not allowed society to eliminate us or censor our words. We have to keep speaking up for ourselves & others with disabilities because no one else will.

I raise my cane up high for all fellow people with disabilities & giving a high five to our loyal comrades too 💖🙌❤️✊

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Since my last update, 2 new donations were received, together totalling $105.75 🙏❤️
**I had to use $185.25 from funds raised to pay for my emergency dental gums surgery yesterday.**

Current numbers for my fixed dentures fundraiser:
$1,695.90 CDN in donated funds received as of July 1st.
$2,330 − $1,695.90 = $604.10
Total still needed: $604.10

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

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Since my last update, earlier in week, 1 donation was received -> $130.70 came into PayPal from one kind fedi friend 🙏❤️

Current numbers for my fixed dentures fundraiser:
$1,590.15 CDN in donated funds received as of June 30th.
$2,330 − $1,590.15 = $709.85
Total still needed: $709.85

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

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Since my last update, earlier in week, 2 donations were received & combined funds received -> $62.43 🙏

Here's the current numbers for my fixed dentures fundraiser:
$1,459.45 CDN in donated funds received as of 7:50am on June 27th.
$2,330 − $1,459.45 = $870.55
Total still needed: $870.55

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

I'll be documenting the whole process of getting fixed dentures, afterwards, so folks can see what they helped to fund.

One donation of $25.01 received in PayPal on June 20th. No other funds received over weekend. Please keep boosting to help me reach my fundraising goal.

$1,422.03 CDN in donated funds received as of 7:40am on June 16th.
$2,330 − $1,422.03 = $877.97
Total still needed: $877.97

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

I'll be documenting the whole process of getting fixed dentures, afterwards, so folks can see what they helped to fund.

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简体:

”Crips for eSims for Gaza"是Jane Shi、Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha和Alice Wong(王美华)合作组织的加沙援助项目。

全球的身心障碍人士正在竭力募集资金,将尽可能多的电子SIM卡送到巴勒斯坦的加沙地带。

以色列施加于巴勒斯坦人的种族灭绝目前已持续了超过75年202天。以色列占领军在加沙不断制造持续多日的通讯中断,而这也是他们造成种族灭绝的手法之一。eSim,也就是可以通过电子邮件截图方式发送的电子SIM卡,是加沙的巴勒斯坦人连接互联网,并与彼此以及世界其他地方通信的唯一可靠方式。

迄今为止,我们的项目已经筹集了100,000美元,发送了超过1800个eSim,并有超过500个eSim正在使用中。我们希望能继续发送更多的电子Sim卡,以便加沙的人们可以持续保持通讯。

所有收到的捐款都将用于购买与充值电子SIM卡。

请在看见身心障碍人士查看募捐的详细信息。

点击查看我们的资金使用报告。

“我们想将钱和资源直接送到加沙的巴勒斯坦人民手中,然而,像大家知道的那样,封锁使得现金和资源几乎无法进入加沙。一种可行的方式就是为人们提供eSim。"

如您身在加拿大:可e-transfer 至cripsforesimsforgaza@gmail.com

chuffed.org/project/crips-for-

ChuffedCrips for eSims for GazaCrips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong. 
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繁体:

"Crips for eSims for Gaza"是Jane Shi、Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha和Alice Wong(王美華)合作籌辦的加薩募款活動。

全球的身心障礙人士正在竭力募款,盡可能將最多的eSim送到巴勒斯坦的加薩地帶。

以色列施加於巴勒斯坦人的種族滅絕目前已持續超過了75年116天。以色列軍隊在加薩的強制佔領造成持續多日的通訊中斷,而這也是他們種族滅絕的手段之一。eSim,也就是可以簡單通過電子郵件截圖方式傳送的電子eSIM卡,是加薩的巴勒斯坦人連接互聯網,與彼此以及世界其他地區保持資訊暢通唯一可靠的方式。

目前為止,我們的活動已經籌集了100,000美元,發送了超過1800個eSim,並有超過500個eSim正在被使用中。我們希望能繼續發送更多的eSim,以便加薩的人民可以持續與家人保持聯絡並維持資訊暢通。

所有的捐款都將用於購買與儲值eSIM卡。

請在看見身心障礙人士查看募款的詳細資訊。

點閱我們的資金使用報告。

"我們想將錢和資源直接送到加薩的巴勒斯坦人民手中,但是,如同大家所知,國境封鎖造成現金和資源幾乎無法進入加薩。不過目前最可以支援當地人民的方式就是提供可使用的eSim。"

若您在加拿大:可e-transfer 至cripsforesimsforgaza@gmail.com

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Français:

Les personnes handicapées en appui des eSims pour Gaza est une collaboration de Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha et Alice Wong.

Les personnes handicapées récoltent des fonds à l’échelle mondiale pour faire suivre le maximum de eSims à Gaza.

Lisez la description complète (non disponible en français) de ce projet de financement collectif à Disability Visibility.

Consultez nos documents de responsabilité financière (non disponible en français).

À noter : Pour celleux aux États-Unis qui utilisent PayPal, pensez à faire votre don directement à Eris, bénévole du projet basé·e aux É-U, qui œuvrera avec nous pour que le monde puisse se faire rembourser directement, sans frais d’échange ou de transaction internationale. Pour celleux qui sont aux États-Unis et qui utilisent Venmo, pensez à donner à Emily, qui fera pareil dans ces cas.

Pour celleux au Canada : virement Interac à cripsforesimsforgaza@gmail.com (dépôt automatique activé !)

chuffed.org/project/crips-for-

ChuffedCrips for eSims for GazaCrips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong. 
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#Español :

"Como gente descapacitada alrededor del mundo y como asiaticos queeres de la diaspora, hemos estado en un luto profundo y buscando todas las formas posibles para estar en solidaridad con el pueblo palestino durante los ultimos 80 dias de #genocidio sufrido por la gente de #Palestina.

Queremos hacer llegar dinero y recurso de manera directa a los palestinos en Gaza, sin embargo, como muchos ya saben, el bloqueo ha hecho casi imposible entregar contado y recursos a #Gaza. Una manera que si se puede es conseguir #eSims para personas allá. "

#Donar aqui: chuffed.org/project/crips-for-

Transferencia electrónica (para gente en Canadá)

cripsforesimsforgaza@gmail.com

ChuffedCrips for eSims for GazaCrips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong. 

*This is verified & legit.*

#CripsForESims for #Gaza.

Crips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong.

#DisabledPeople around the world are raising funds to get as many #eSims as we can into Gaza.

chuffed.org/project/crips-for-

See full #crowdfund description at Disability Visibility. disabilityvisibilityproject.co

Check out our financial accountability document.
docs.google.com/document/d/19e

"We want to get money and resources directly to Palestinians in Gaza, however, as many people know, the blockade has made it almost impossible to get cash and resources into Gaza. One way that is possible is getting people eSims."

Important Note (read carefully before donating!): 

We have several volunteers purchasing eSims in the States and in the UK. We are hoping to reimburse them without international transaction fees within PayPal and have opened up the following options to help us do so. 

For folks who are in the States and using Venmo, please consider donating directly to Emily, who will be helping us to reimburse people directly without conversion rate and international transaction fees.
venmo.com/u/emxdeng

Please do not donate send funds through Venmo or Zelle via our main email; we do not have an official Venmo or Zelle account! 

For folks in the UK and using Paypal, please consider donating directly to one of our UK-based volunteers, Divya. 
paypal.com/donate/?hosted_butt

For those in Canada: e-transfer cripsforesimsforgaza@gmail.com (autodeposit on!)

ChuffedCrips for eSims for GazaCrips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong. 
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No new donations since June 16th to update on. Here's the current numbers for my fixed dentures fundraiser:

$1,397.02 CDN in donated funds received as of 7:40am on June 16th.
$2,330 − $1,397.02 = $902.98
Total still needed: $902.98

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

I'll be documenting the whole process of getting fixed dentures, afterwards, so folks can see what they helped to fund.

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Thanks to your supportive boosts - I received some more donated funds yesterday ❤️ A total of $260.43 CDN was received after fees were deducted. That helps me get closer to fundraising goal 🙌 I appreciate all the help from kind souls.

$1,397.02 CDN in donated funds had been received as of 7:40am on June 16th.
$2,330 − $1,397.02 = $902.98
Total still needed: $902.98

If you can donate anything at all to help me pay for fixed dentures, please use my PayPal or e-transfer or Kofi.

paypal.me/quebanh

quebanhincedar@gmail.com

ko-fi.com/phoenixserenity
*Kofi charges almost $5 fee for every $50 donation - they transfer funds over to PayPal*

Please boost, if you're unable to #donate to my fixed dentures #fundraiser. Thank you for any & all assistance 🙏

I'll be documenting the whole process of getting fixed dentures, afterwards, so folks can see what they helped to fund.