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#FediReturn #Welcome #RaceTraitor #WomensRights #ProtectTheDolls #BeCrimesDoGay #Ace #HowManyOfTheseInAMessageCanIMake

Hello. I learned two things while I was away.

1.) As they always should, Tacos give me hope. And TACO is a great way to fight authoritarianism. Couldn't know that before I left after the election.

2.) Leaving Mastodon burns your username on that server, so I can't use Cefr@beige.party ever again. So @sefr it is.

Other than that, this post serves as my bio. Hello! I'm mid 40s, living in a red state I keep trying to paint a tiny corner of blue, and former Technology Enthusiast. I'm hard at work de-Googling and un-Microsofting my life. Embracing off shore services. Rejecting AI. And reading any banned books I can on CRT, Queer Life, and Women's perspectives.

I try to be funny, though. Even if it's cringe or dad-jokey, so Beige is my home. I hope to catch up and get back into things but slower and less "soapbox". In fact, my posts auto delete after a month now. (Except this one.)

Follow back is not required. I will try to CW USPol because US is sucking all the air out of the world (and if you live abroad from the US, please do your part and uncouple your country's fate with America. Don't let us spread "freedom™️" and "Christianity™️" with a 3 year contract for anything. Fuck the US, save yourselves and neighbors.) Masc-presenting, but pronouns are any, and I will respect yours.

Life is good when you find your people.

In this comic, Luna, her partner, and a couple friends are watching a movie. One scene comes up that garners a few different reactions; some are swooning, some aren’t feeling anything at all. And that’s the beauty of being in a queer-affirming space: no one has to explain themselves, feel broken, or be told that their experience is “too much” or “not enough.” You just get to be who you are, no questions asked.

A little crush. A big “meh.” A total lack of romantic or sexual interest. It’s all welcome, and it’s perfectly valid ❤️

This one is for our ace, aro, demi, and spectrum babes out there. You belong just as much as anyone else 🏳️‍🌈

💬 Leave a comment if this reminded you of your people 🥲

❤️ Help us keep creating and posting content by joining our Patreon or dropping us a tip at BuyMeACoffee! Link in bio!

#ADayInTheLuna #Queer #Aro #Asexual #Ace #Demisexual #Pansexual #QueerCommunity #Trans #Transgender

#BooksAgainstNormativity

Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.

I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:

#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)

#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)

I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.

Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.

LIVE, Dammit Bluesky Blog

#YESquotes - ACE/Angela Chen: "Difference can be a gift. Being #ace can mean less interpersonal drama & more freedom fr social norms re: relationships...an oppty to focus more on other passions, to be less distracted by sexuality, ...choose yr own adventure & values." #Pride #LGBTQIA bit.ly/43v6tdm

LINK: bsky.app/profile/livedammit.bs

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Bluesky Social · LIVEdammit (@livedammit.bsky.social)#YESquotes - ACE/Angela Chen: "Difference can be a gift. Being #ace can mean less interpersonal drama & more freedom fr social norms re: relationships...an oppty to focus more on other passions, to be less distracted by sexuality, ...choose yr own adventure & values." #Pride #LGBTQIA bit.ly/43v6tdm

LIVE, Dammit Bluesky Blog

#YESquotes - ACE/Angela Chen: "Difference can be a gift. Being #ace can mean less interpersonal drama & more freedom fr social norms re: relationships...an oppty to focus more on other passions, to be less distracted by sexuality, ...choose yr own adventure & values." #Pride #LGBTQIA bit.ly/43v6tdm
bit.ly/43v6tdm

LINK: bsky.app/profile/livedammit.bs

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WEBSITE: LIVEdammit.com

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#psychology #counseling #socialwork #psychotherapy @psychotherapist @psychotherapists @psychology @socialpsych @socialwork @psychiatry #mentalhealth #psychiatry #healthcare #depression #psychotherapist #livedammit #suicide

I had a really great #AroAce community evening today.

I learned about #RelationshipAnarchy and the #Smörgasbord and we discussed why people in amatonormative couple relationships, who turn from two "I"s into a "we" find it so hard to use "I-messages" in conflicts, but have no trouble using "you-accusations".

This pride month I want to learn more about different relationship types and possibilities and want to find a definition of "friendship" for myself.

Feel free to give me input.

#ace#asexuality#pride