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#NonBinaryPositivity

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It’s not your fault if you have to leave everyone you’ve ever known because they couldn’t accept you for being nonbinary.

It’s not a reflection of your inadequacy. It’s a sign of their failing.

And you are still lovable and worthy of friendship even if you have to start over.

Be glad that this time around you will have better, stronger relationships.

“There are only two genders.” “You just want attention.” These frantic statements are the dying breaths of an ideology.

These defenders of a rigid gender binary have been reduced to shouting hate behind anonymity and bluster with no hope of changing us.

Such acts are only to briefly lessen their own fear. They are afraid because we are winning.

So, keep fighting. Continue winning.

The process of transitioning can be difficult and imperfect. It's often painful, complicated, and far from a linear process. For nonbinary people it's even harder to find anything resembling an end point.

It's much the same as any kind of personal growth. There's pain and unexpected turns in the journey, but it's an experience that ultimately adds to your character.

Embrace the wilderness of it.

It's alright to be frustrated with the limited spaces that nonbinary people have carved out for ourselves in society.

It's important to be happy with what you have. However, frustration is also a sign that more work needs to be done.

Listen to that anger. Use it to push at the edges of what's "allowed" for you and make room for those after you.